Friday, August 14, 2015

Life Lately

Hi Everyone!! Life is so exciting right now!! I have a lot to update you guys on! I am so sorry it has almost been a month since I have posted last!

Let me just say a quick disclaimer, these next 4 months I won't be posting much due to school being back in session and to be honest NOTHING exciting happens during school time EVER for me. I will put my wedding planning on hold until Christmas break when I will be job interviewing and major major wedding planning. See the reason we wanted to be engaged for more than a year is because you have to reserve venues and things you want literally 1 year in advance. This summer we have taken care of the things that need a year reservation and at Christmas time we have left that month open for the things that need to be decided 6 months or less close to the wedding. I have no idea how people are engaged for only 6 months or less, I don't know how they are able to get anything they want! With our engagement being 13.6 months we still ran into many, "We are booked June 4th 2016"! It's like how in the world are you booked over a year in advance! Kudos to those 4 month engage-rs or less!

Let me rewind and pick back up where I wrote last. So soon after my birthday weekend Cody and I headed over to All Occasions Rentals to find out more about our wedding decor. I won't show too many pics to you guys because I still want the element of surprise when you show up at the wedding in 9.5 months!
Wedding colors galore!! 
Now remember, these are my wedding colors but don't worry, it will be a classy white wedding with touches and hints of these two colors popping up in different places.
Check out this beautiful sunset on the way to our semi-nightly jumpfit class!
I just wanted to share this pic of my never ending hair! God has blessed me with this much hair to work with forever. My hair is one of my favorite physical assets of me! Now there are some major downfalls of having this much hair and it being so poofy, on multiple occasions I have gotten into the shower and shook my hair to start washing it and have a beetle fall right out onto the shower floor. Yep. During the summer days when I am outside a lot, they like to set up camp in my hair for the day. Aren't I lucky! And man don't even get me started on low shower pressure and 2-in-1 shampoo/conditioners, grrr :(. PEOPLE IT'S NOT CONDITIONER AT ALL!      :)


One cool thing a few weeks ago was Cody and I were able to go to our second drive-in movie ever! We had a blast and got front row seats! Apparently there aren't any speakers and each car had to provide their own with the radio station but I didn't want to risk our car not starting from being on battery for 4 hours. So we got to watch two semi-silent movies!! The experiance was so fun we didnt' even care! The two movies we saw were Pixels and Minions. I do have to say Cody and I may or may not have fallen asleep during the minions movie since it was 2 am so don't ask us about it;).


In preparation for our Texas trip we searched for a good old shady hat. I found this beauty at Dicks Sporting Goods! The sun didn't stand a chance with me! (if you could have only seen how big the hat actually was lol!)
One disappointing thing lately was this selfie stick.
This is my second selfie stick and neither of them ever worked for me :_( I think I have given up on the selfie bandwagon. Too bad I really wanted it to work.



One really really exciting thing/milestone in our engaged lives is Cody coached his first scrimmage as a high school coach! So naturally I had to take pictures!
All the prayers helped tremendously and our prayers were answered! Cody is now student teaching at Farragut High School and coaching on their football team! We just had to wait on God's timing instead of our own. We struggled for this to work out for over half a year! I have never been so proud of my fiance! He is a fantastic coach and has so much knowledge and passion for football. I truly believe he is the next football prodigy, leaving out all biased opinions! He is good! I've never seen anyone his age know just as much and more than most college coaches! (I would know, I come from a family of college coaches) It was so bright that day! Cody also lead the team huddle and called all of the plays!
 Before moving on let me give a quick recognition to this amazing person!
Nana has taken Cody and I in for 3 summers out of the 5 I have been in college and opened the door willingly to her house! She is gracious to let us have the two bedrooms upstairs and be able to store our stuff and cook in her house! She is a saving grace and has such a big heart! Thank you so much Nana! We will remember that forever! Oh and she cooked her famous home-cooked meals for us once a week! We were spoiled!!





Thanks to my dad just last week Cody, me, Morgan, and her boyfriend Edgar took a trip to Texas to stay with dad! My dad got us our plane tickets and planned a packed fun 4 day vacation for us to celebrate the end of my summer research, me and Morgan's classes, and all four of us starting back school again. I was a much needed trip. I feel like with college I haven't done anything these past 4 almost 5 years. I can't wait to get my life back! 

The beginning of our trip started out on Thursday at 3:00pm with 4 hours of driving to the Atlanta airport and a 3 hour flight followed by a 1 hour drive to dad's place. We were exhausted but THRILLED our plane was on time! THANK THE LORD! Morgan and I have had our fair share with airports and flying and know what can happen. But thankfully every single thing went smoothly and the airport was a breeze! I'm traveling at night more often! Cody and Edgar had really never been in an airport or on a plane before so I was so happy to be able to share this first time experience together! (Oh and when the flight attendants say you might want to check your bag because it doesn't look like it's going to fit, check your dang bag people!! Don't be those people who swear their 5 foot bag will fit in the overhead compartments. We had many people in front of us stubborn as ever holding up the line for 30+ minutes because of this. Bottom line folks, use your brain!) 

Here is a little collage of what our Friday consisted of:


Driving to Schlitterbahn water park 
Schlitterbahn was an absolute blast! Even though it took us 5 hours to get 1 hour away we still made the most of our day! (forgot tickets and anything else that could go wrong, we were the Griswalds for the day:)) My favorite ride was an uphill water coaster! We closed the park down at 8:00pm! Wish we could have stayed longer! Oh and only Cody got burned I say that was a success! Only 1/6! Poor Cody.

After the water park we stopped at the Twisted Root restaurant to pick up burgers. This pic reminds me of the sun-burnt windy nights at the beach. I loved it!

We found a t-rex there and had to take a pic.



Look at my handsome man!

Morgan loves her lemonade!

And my daddy!
Dad was sweet enough to buy us all matching tshirts from his company which we visited on Saturday! I love where he works! Bazaar Voice! They were all sized XXL so we had a nice tent lol!

On Saturday morning we had a delicious lunch at a gorgeous restaurant called the Oasis! We used to eat there for special occasions when we lived in Texas. I was so excited to show Cody all of the neat places where I grew up.

Breathtaking view! Even more gorgeous than I remembered.






I found this beautiful horse statue!

And of course they had a football statue!

The rest of Saturday we went sight seeing and showed Cody what real high school football stadiums look like:). He was impressed to say the least.

On Sunday it came time to leave to Knoxville. My dad and his girlfriend Tonya got up early in the morning for us and got the famous Round Rock donuts. The pictures don't do it justice! The yellow on the inside of the donuts, yeah that's the buttery-ness! I could easily eat an entire box!!


Oh and before I forget, we visited Amy's ice cream. We always loved Amy's! It didn't disappoint! They have marble cows to climb on and take a pic so we added one to our past collection of Amy's marble cow pictures.  



We finally got to sit together!! The plane was also on time! We love Delta Airlines!!

The breathtaking view from Cody's window up in the air! It reminds me of God's love for us, never ending!

So now Wednesday rolls around and it is yet again time to move into my apartment. I am in love with my new place! I have finally not gotten the short end of the stick!
Only took us three carts full this year and 1.5 hours to move in! Score!!
I am so grateful for Mom, Morgan, Gigi, Granddad, and Nana to take time out of their busy schedule to help me move in! I am especially grateful for my mom during this new move! I practically begged her the night before to take off of work to come help me! I was desperate and so overwhelmed! I don't think I have ever begged my mom like that but she asked her principal and was able to sneak away for 2 hours! She was such an amazing help just what I needed and I knew she would be!

I finally have a room to myself after 22 years of life! I can't stand being shoved in tight spaces to live with complete strangers so I am ecstatic! Thank the Lord for senior year. (My 5th year go engineering major!)

My wonderful spacious living room with breathtaking views!

Oh and I was second most excited about this, who am I kidding, the whole thing was a surprise! I had such low expectations. I am so happy and blessed! I was thrilled to see this apartment building had a small grocery store!! Just what I needed!

One of the 360 views my place has!!

And a workout room!! Oh my goodness I am so excited for this!!!

Free laundry facilities!!!

And a multi-media room with ping-pong, air hockey, billiards, a tv, and a pool area outside!! I am one happy girl! And Cody is just 30 minutes away opposed to 6 hours and Morgan is 5 streets away! I'm in heaven!!

I don't look forward to this school year at all but I need to pray and have a positive attitude. It is so hard. College has torn my confidence to shreds and walks on the pieces every day. I am NOT a fan. 

One happy thing is in both of my summer classes I made a B!! I am so happy!!! Hard work rarely pays off in college classes but this time it did!

Guess what is happening tomorrow?!?! WEDDING DRESS SHOPPING! Yes the time has finally come and the last of my summer wedding planning is here! I am shopping at Davids bridal with my family and Cody's family tomorrow and I couldn't be more thrilled!! All this eating well and exercising more has really paid off! I have lost a total of 15 pounds this summer!!

Things are moving so fast in life and I am so excited about that! Let me tell you I absolutely can't wait to marry Cody! Whenever we have date nights or just talk, we frequently bring up our married life! Cody and I have been talking about getting married since a year and a half into our dating life.  We always knew that's what we wanted and couldn't wait for the future! I feel like even after 4.4 years of dating I still can't get enough time with him and never will be able to. Which is a good thing! Cody and I LOVE spending time together and sharing every day of our life together. When we get married I can't wait to have our own place to go to and just be together! He is my best friend and truly I can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. He is such an amazing supporter and listener and helps make me a better person. I feel the most like myself when I am with him. I feel like we are going to have a really really really good life together.

Love, 
Kayla Dyar (Raborn)
P.S.- 295 days left to the wedding!!



Saturday, July 18, 2015

Birthday Weekend!!

Wow what an incredibly fun past two holiday/birthday weeks!!

I am deep in the midst of my second summer class, a biology class at UT which is kind of controlling my life, but is very interesting! Working and going to school is such a challenge! For those who ask what I do for my job and are just as confused if not more after I explain, let me help clarify. I work for my major, Materials Science and Engineering department and doing research for a professor helping with x-ray diffraction. X-ray diffraction helps look at the crystal structure of materials (mainly powder and solids) to determine the properties of the material and help determine defects or the best material to use for certain objects. I help analyze data and create programs on the equipment along with altering the machine for the task at hand. With my degree I hope to go into industry and more specifically help develop stain-proof materials, water-proof materials or materials that go into prosthetics that your body can readily bond to.

Anyways, the past few weekends ago was the 4th of July and I had bought some 'gentle' fireworks for us to shoot off and let me tell you, 'gentle' fireworks are NOT gentle. We bought sparklers and the little things you throw on the ground that pop and with the sparklers I still think we have smoke in our lungs! The whole street was black with smoke, they had to have been defected and the poppers you throw on the ground shot pieces everywhere. We had pieces of firework blown at us flying at our legs, arms, and face no matter how far away you threw them. The package said nothing about it except not to eat them. I guess it was still a fun adventure to add to our memories hahaha.

The past weekend was Cody and I's birthday!!!! We are exactly a day apart. This was the first time we have every actually seen each other on our birthday's so it was an extra special occasion. (because of usual long-distance relationship). So I started his birthday bash with a surprise breakfast in bed from Chick-fil-a and a scavenger hunt around his house leading to his presents. I don't think he's ever done either so that's another first for us!:) So also on that Saturday, Cody's actual birthday, we had a family engagement/birthday party! We had 34 family members show up and it was an absolute fantastic success!!!! We had an absolute blast!!! Everyone pitched in to make it happen! I want to say a special thanks to Cody's parents Jamie and Miles for working every weekend from May to a few hours before the party to make sure the pool and everything was set up and functioning. My grandmother Gigi, Nana, aunt Jody, and Cody's grandmother brought delicious food and chairs while my mom brought everything together with beautiful beach themed decorations. We had Cody's brother, groomsman, and one of my bridesmaid come in from over 6 hours away each! We were so blessed to have the love and support that fun day! Cody and I were able to open some of our first wedding gifts that day and man were we excited!! Check out some of these awesome and thoughtful gifts!!:

Cody and I felt so grateful to have all the excitement and love around us!

My mom ordered this gorgeous unity candle holder for us and I have never seen such a thing! It will look so beautiful during our ceremony!

Look at this cute kitchen towel from my soon-to-be cousin-in-law!! I love this look!

One of the most meaningful gifts was from my aunt Jody. This bracelet is made from antique spoon handles and has three pearls on the top signifying Christ in the center of me and Cody's marriage as it should. I will be wearing this beauty on my wedding day! What a better symbol to show and remind myself on my wedding day, the reason for this all, the Lord!

Our future apartment, Lovell Crossing, will be so stylish with all of the 'R' items we have received. If anyone has noticed I am obsessed with monograms and initials. I love being able to show off my new initial!!!:)

I know this 'R' mug is backwards but in real life it isn't, thank you mirroring cameras lol. But seriously look how darling this is!!!

And last but most certainly not least of our party gifts are the ring bearer pillow and flower girl basket from my sweet mama! Aren't they the most precious things you have every seen!?! My cousin Ada and future nephew are going to be so cute!!!

I still cannot believe this is all real and this is my life, I have been waiting for this time of my life for a very very long time! I am so happy!!

So the next day, Sunday was my birthday! And Cody and I can officially say "We're feelin 22!!" Taylor Swift would be so proud. My birthday day was a fantastic day! For my cake we had Edible Arrangements which are chocolate dipped fresh fruits (for a healthy delicious twist) and mom decked out Nana's house with birthday decorations as seen below:


The rest of my birthday day was just as I requested, relaxing. With life being so busy there's not much time for that. I had breakfast in bed served to me by my mom and sister and went to my church, and finished homework, watched a movie, played board games, and one of my favorite things, star gazed in the tailgate of Cody's truck that night! Oh how magical and romantic! Cody also surprised me with a beautiful pair of earrings and a gorgeous bouquet of flowers:
Cody has fantastic taste!

This weekend was a lot of fun too! My cousin and my uncle ran a marathon because they are awesome and crazy, but I am so proud of their hard work and dedication. Today I got to run wedding hair trials!! Oh it looked beautiful! I am going for the half up half down look what do you think? (one side has a braid)
I am in love with this hair style and think I am going to go with it!

Cody and I have been doing fantastic with eating well and working out! We are into this new fitness craze called jumpfit! Wow it is the best way to exercise burning 1,000-1,600 calories an hour! I went to the early bird session this morning and got to see a beautiful sight of no one there to crowd the place lol!
This place is one of my favorite places! I've been doing backflips since I was 10!

Cody and I celebrated the end of our 14 hours-a-day work days with a date night at Cheddars! We really needed that! I love being with that guy so much, Cody is so fun and easy to talk to. He just gets me!

This past month alone has been so much fun and I can't wait for what the rest of this summer has to bring!

Love,
Kayla Dyar (Raborn)
7-19-15

P.S.- 321 days left until the wedding day!! Countdown is on my Instagram bio!!

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Pretty Peonies

Hey everybody :)!!!!

I'm back again with more exciting updates of my crazy but awesome life! Let me start by saying... 11 months until the wedding!!!!! And how in the world is June already over! Wanna know the craziest part, well July 1st marked 1/2 way through the year 2015!!! How is that possible it was just January!

Thing's have been great with the almost newest Raborn couple on the block! I am about to start my second summer class this Monday which I am NOT looking forward to. But I will be one class closer to May 2016 graduation!!! Wahooo!!! Then 3 weeks later I get married! Oh my gosh life is moving so fast I love these new steps!

Cody and will be visiting our future place this Thursday to make a deposit for the wait list down payment! It's official! We will be living in the gorgeous Lovell Crossing apartments once we get married! It is 15 minutes from both grandparents, downtown, and oak ridge! Perfect!

Last weekend me, Cody, Morgan, mom, and Morgan's bf Edgar ran an inflatable 5k! It was an absolute blast and quite a fun challenge! There were 10, 3 story high inflatables we had to scale and slip and slide down. We even ran it in the pouring rain! (that was unexpected) here are some neat pics from the race:




Here is the metals they gave us along with a free soft shirt (not pictures)

While down in Chattanooga I was able to have my sweet mother-in-law cut my hair which I needed desperately, look at those long locks!!


Recently Cody and I have kicked it up a notch and have been going to jump fit at jumpjam!!! We burn 1,000-2,000 calories an hour!!!! We have been mixing it up with tennis, weight lifting, running, swimming, and this new thing called pure barre. Cody has lost a total of 19 pounds and I have lost a total of 14!!! yayayayayay! 

Along the lines of wedding planning, for those who love wedding planning, a.k.a. everybody, we have picked a florist and oh my goodness I am so so happy with her!!!! The company is called Melissa Floral Designs! I have designed my bouquet and it will have 20 peonies that are white and blush pink peonies, the bridesmaids will have fluffy bundles of baby's breath, the groomsmen will have a white rose and baby's breath, and Ada my 7 year old flower girl will have a baby's breath halo!! She is going to be sooo cute! The center pieces will be a surprise, I am really excited about that! And on the serving tables there will be baby's breath in burlap wrapped mason jars! Its going to be a dream come true! Oh my gosh you guys I am so excited!!


We have chose a DJ called Davis Sound and they will be awesome! I need some song suggestions desperately!! We have found a videographer who is just getting into the business but has amazing work! Cody has been the best accountant and researcher for us still! He amazes me so much and how much he wants to be involved and support me! I am so proud of him and how much he wants me to not be stressed. I am so lucky to have him, he is my best friend and I love spending time with him.

I am also scheduled in 2 weeks to have hair and makeup trials at a local salon!  I am looking for a half up half down hair look with lots of loose curls and a natural makeup look because for those who know me I don't wear make up hardly ever. It is a personal choice when I wake up everyday and honestly think I look beautiful just the way God made me, (I also get an extra 10 minutes of sleep).

The other day we ran into Belk for a little bit to add more to our registry and fix a few loose ends. I love the power of a scanner haha!

Look what we got in the mail!! Our "R" cake topper!!! :D It is beautiful! I can't believe in just 11 short months I will have a new last name!! (And our future kids will be last for everything in school)



And don't worry, despite the planning and chaos of summer life as a working engineering student, Cody and I have had time to relax, enjoy being together and continually building or relationship and ever-growing love! We found a new park by our house and swung into the cool night having a blast after my run! We found two swings we still fit in and pushed each other, yeah I know but we are still trying to stay a kid at heart. :) <3
(excuse the after run red face)

I still fit!! ;)


Our pre-walk selfie taken by Cody! I was VERY impressed! Fiance's first selfie!!

Have a good week everyone!!

With love,
Kayla Dyar (Raborn)
7-2-15